I created a modpack that was entirely what I wanted, a mix of multiple modpacks for ultimate compatibility. Lots of tech mods, some magic, food/farming, loads of quality of life and visual enhancement (including shaders), plenty of server addons such as emotes and voice chat, performance mods, some world gen while keeping it tame enough to not cause weird structure problems, and even sound mods! There's also some added mods for you builders or content creators out there. you can always edit this modpack as well with mods like Essential Mod if you don't want the hassle of trying to configure it for a server, or Better Combat, etc. but I still wanted at least a somewhat vanilla feel.
Also included is my customized texture pack from Vanilla Tweaks, whick you can find here: https://vanillatweaks.net/picker/resource-packs/